branch-4.0: [fix](cloud) Fix recycle deleted instance and remove versioned::meta_rowset_key writes #60304

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Cherry-picked from #60304

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Cloud UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 10.77% (7/65) 🎉

Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	79.22% (1784/2252)
Line Coverage	64.91% (31751/48912)
Region Coverage	65.40% (15845/24227)
Branch Coverage	55.98% (8418/15038)